When you first get dumped and the shock wears off, you may do several common things in an effort to get your girl back.  The first thing you’ll do is try to change her mind.  As you fight her on the decision to break up (and your now ex girlfriend gets more and more annoyed), you’ll even start to beg and plead her to give things a second chance.  A day or two later, you might be writing long love notes, seeking out the perfect Hallmark cards, sending flowers or even small gifts thinking these can buy your way back into your ex’s heart.  As things progress and you still haven’t gotten back together, you might show up at your ex’s job, school, or home in an effort to get her to talk to you.  

All of these things are terrible ideas,…



Source by Anthony Malibu